The mind has this weird way of sorting things out. I was focused on the road and my thoughts just fell into place. But now that I am here, active in my head, watching tv and writing this, my thoughts fly into the atmosphere of my mind...great.
Sometimes we need a long car ride, sometimes we need to be alone, sometimes it's not enough to think that you have everything under control. Let your mind relax. Focus on something else, like a trashy tv show. Haha.